The Open Marriage of Will Smith & Jada Pinkett Smith - 20 Years & Counting...
Have you heard of the word Open Marriage before? Do you know
what it actually means? I guess not really for quite a handful of people out
there because it might seem somehow weird and unacceptable for some people,
personalities, religion, tribe, Culture or Nation but against all odds this is
what is keeping the Marriage of the renowned Actor, Will Smith and her Beautiful
Wife, Jada Pinkett Smith who according to Mamamia has disclosed that this is
the source of their string going and healthy marriage that have thrived for the
past 20 years, that’s about 2 decades of a flourishing sweetness that is rarely
found amongst people in that field and Profession, which is a more reason why
people are more interested in knowing how they manage to do it not until the
breakdown was made available to us via Mamamia.
The Gist about Will Smith & Jada Smith
Okay here is the gist, sometime around this year, the Couples,
Will Smith and her betrothed Wife and Princess, Jada Pinkett Smith did their 20
years Wedding Anniversary, or rather marriage Anniversary if you will like to
put it that way and you know that such things are seldomly found,
experienced or known among Celebrities, most especially the Actors in Actress
in Hollywood to be more precise, so whenever anyone in this profession ties the
knot, so many people are always predicting the doomsday of their breakup and
its almost more of an expectation than a surprise when the breaking news hits
the media like wild fire burning a dry forest, but this couple’s marriage had played
out very differently against all odds with not just a couple of years but a
full 2 decades of of marriage, oh my, that is really applaudable but wait a
minute, before you clap for them, get to know the secret and how they did it,
if it will appeal to your beliefs system or not before you rain down your
praises but for now go ahead and carry out your appraisal of this Secret below.
History about Will Smith's Open Marriage
Around year 2005 Will Smith himself told The New York Post
that even though he was married to Jada as her Wife, he could actually still
sleep with anyone that he is attracted to but with a requested and granted
permission from the Wife, Jada, at same point, he made a comment that his
Co-Star Eva Mendes was so gorgeous and after saying that I believe people were
like “You can’t say that Will, off course you are a Married man” and his
responds was that a comment like that is not what the Wife will be worried
about as it wouldn’t be a thing to her, now where did such Self-control or high
self-esteem and regard came from? No, it’s about the perspective rather and theirs
is that
“You are always going to be attracted to People which is normal and you can’t avoid it which is like trying to cheat Nature”
Will Smith further added that when they were vowing to each
other, there was no clause of part that said that they were going to forsake
each other but rather what they vowed to each other was not to ever allow
something to happen after the fact, which is more like Will Smith could get
attracted to a gorgeous personality that he would want to have sex with, then
he is going to tell the Wife Jada saying “hey Sweetie pie, I just ran into this
Gorgeous looking Girl and she is bae and I would love to have Sex with her,
what’s your respond, is it approved, if you aren’t going to approve this one
then I won’t do it, but please do me a favor by approving it because I need to
have Sex with this girl so badly. So this more like a cheating with Permission
thing.
The main Perspective about their supposed Open Marriage
But don’t get me wrong, this is more of a perspective of
this couples and we can’t really tell for sure if it does happen, because in
his last words, it was clearly stated there (“If it came down to it”), meaning
that if actually such happened, that is what it would be.
So in a nutshell, the perspective is more of a Selfless one
that cares for the feelings of the opposite partner as long as what they do
makes them happy, just like Jada stated in a HuffPostLive Video Interview in
April of 2013. This is something someone once said to his Girlfriend about
playing safe, she said as long as my Man knows his way back and where his heart
belongs to, he can play games for all she cares but above all, he should play
safe to avoid complications. It is some kind of matured perspective but like I
noted from the onset, it will be condemned and backlashed by so many but who
cares?
So my question would be this, where is her Jealousy, it
seems she doesn’t have one and its freaking Awesome for someone to be able to
cope with such Mindset, she believes that Will Smith is not her Possession and
that it is not true or possible for a man not to be attracted to another women which
she claims is unrealistic and that your man being attracted to another woman
does not mean he doesn’t love you, he might cherish you and still loves you but
just wants to have a change of sex for a while , while still acknowledging the
fact that you are the his primary partner.
These where Will Smith’s message on their Anniversary;
Twenty years ago today we held hands and walked naively down
that aisle," he wrote. "Here’s what I’ve learned since."
"Love is like gardening... I have learned to focus on
HELPING you to BLOSSOM into what YOU want to be (into what you were born to
be)... Rather than demanding that you become what my fragile ego needs you to
be.
"I’ve learned to take pleasure in nourishing YOUR dreams...
Rather than wrestling with you to fulfil my selfish needs and satiate my
insecurities.
"I have learned that Love is listening. Love is giving.
Love is freedom.
"Happy Anniversary, my queen! I am forever devoted to
nurturing your deepest truth," he concluded.
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